still haven’t read TYK yet (it’s on my list! gotta finish Qiang Jin Jiu first though) so this is in fact the only version of this relationship I could speak to! I have no idea what it looks like in the novel but I do know that the Scorpion King is a very different character there.
so this is a prime case of “got sort of distracted from the main plot by whatever the fuck was going on in that side plot” as is very typical for me in most things I read and watch.
because as I was watching and as I kept watching it just kept getting…weirder and more toxic and as I love Xie Wang an unreasonable amount (give me a pretty man desperate for the approval of an authority figure and willing to do appalling things to make that happen and I’m gone) I kept being like “buddy! stop! you deserve better, ditch his ass” re: Zhao Jing but of course he’s not going to ditch his ass, he can’t, both I think because of a sunk cost fallacy (he’s put in this much effort! can’t stop now!) and like. he loves this guy. don’t understand why personally but there you go
(I don’t remember if we get much/anything about how Xie Wang is tied to Zhao Jing, how they ended up linked together, but I’m fascinated by it.)
but yeah. watching over the course of the series as Xie'er gives his yifu chance after chance despite all evidence that Zhao Jing cares about him only inasmuch as he is useful and would discard him very quickly if it was expeditious to do so, continuing to believe that if he just does one more thing right then…but then he hits the limit of that and does, you know, the normal thing. namely making Zhao Jing utterly dependent on him.
it’s just…he doesn’t kill him, and I think that’s what gets me the most about this absolute mess of a relationship. if he killed him that would be normal, for a given value of normal. but instead when Xie Wang hits the limit of his ability to make excuses for Zhao Jing’s treatment of him, he still wants to keep him, and he arranges things so that he will - so that Zhao Jing will be completely in his power, but he frames it (and I do think he means it) in a way, as taking care of him.
I know it’s not literally a father/son relationship but the best word I have for it is oedipal. as the kids say it’s absolutely rancid and that’s why it remains the part of Word of Honor I think about most. I want nice things for Xie Wang but Xie Wang wants Zhao Jing for Xie Wang which is not actually the same thing even though he’d like it to be. prime example of wanting a thing that’s bad for you. into it.